It’s midnight. And those who really well knows that I would be in bed at this time. So, it’s a bit ‘late’.

Ok, marriage is damn serious. Why get involved with it?

I had found that the metaphor of a dance for family or marriage is quite appropriate, from a book a read many years ago (家庭舞蹈 李維榕著)

How can you dance with a partner if you just concentrate on his steps (not even a move)? How can you dance with a partner who has never seen a great dance or enjoyed before? Tell me how, to dance with a partner who simply does not pick up the rhythm?

There is beauty in compromising, for the betterment in the futuuuuuuuure. But where is the future heading to? If this cannot be answered, all I see is two persons sacrificing their lifestyle, the way they wish to live their life, which is ultimately a humble amount of freedom left for oneself.